Here is the SOLUTION if anyone else having this similar prob:
After trying zillion things installed SBPowerAlert, upgraded Activator and installed http://apt.saurik.com/cydia/debs/mob...honeos-arm.deb
Rebooted, resprang, rebooted again, Got into safemode, restarted, updated cydia and now all works
(As long as don't reboot...then need to do same again)
As of the way the volume up key works to bypass all tweaks. Saved it in /mobile and if need to reboot I just use ifile to reinstall. My volume up key stuck.